EXTENDING OUR CULTURE OF CARE
At Northgate, caring for people is part of who we are.
It’s something we see modeled by our pastors, staff and congregation, and it’s something we hope continues to grow as God leads us into what’s next.
This week, we want to introduce you to someone who is helping us do just that: Pastor Tori Sahnow.
Tori is a recently retired pastor who, along with her husband, Ken, has been part of the Northgate family for some time. After years of pastoral ministry and caring for people through some of life’s greatest joys and deepest challenges, Tori has a particular heart for walking alongside people who need a little extra care.
Over the past few months, she has been joining our weekly pastoral care meetings and helping care for people in our church. Now, she’s preparing to help us take another step: raising up a small, invited group of Northgaters who will be trained to serve as care ministers.
It’s a trial, and it’s intentionally invitation-only for now. The hope is simple: to equip more people in the body of Christ to care well for one another.
Before we tell you more about where this is headed, we thought you should get to know Tori a little better with a little Q&A...

Tell us a little bit about you and your family...
Ken and I met 49 years ago, yesterday, 2 days before he went into the Army. We were babies! The majority of our time getting to know each other was through letter writing (no email yet), long-distance phone calls and Ham radio when Ken was overseas. Over the next year and 4 months before we got married, we were in the same place for only 32 days! Our early married years were spent in Okinawa, Texas and Hawaii before we moved back here when Ken got out of the Army. Our family grew to our son Eric and DIL Abby, Dylan 11, Elaina 6 and our son Tyler and DIL Katie, Ethan 14 and Cora 12...not to mention grand cats Maggie, Pete and Bob and grand dogs Penny and Zoe.
How did you find Northgate and what's one way you've been encouraged in your faith here?
I knew of Northgate from knowing Pastor Terry, Pastor Steve and Pastor Jeff, but when it came time to look for a church after retiring from the church where I was an Associate Pastor, we visited several churches including Northgate and after about 6 months as we prayed about where God was calling us to settle, both Ken and I felt great peace about making Northgate our church home.
My faith is encouraged by the solid biblical teaching, the authenticity and transparency of the pastors which encourages me to be the same. When challenged through the Sunday morning teaching, I love to explore more during the week, and I really miss it when we can't be at church. Lastly, I am encouraged by the way we (Northgate) reaches out to the community and also serves each other within our church.
How has Care Ministry become such a passion of yours?
I think it is the way God made me!
It started from age 10 when my mother suffered a cerebral aneurysm, and we had people come to the house to help her re-learn how to dress herself and eat. Then when I was 16, I took training and started working in a nursing home as a Nurse's Aide. The rest of my jobs have been in a related field, whether working in doctors' offices or in administration and management in home care/hospice and geriatrics. In my fulltime ministry years, I loved visiting congregation members in homes, hospital, assisted living, rehab and nursing home facilities and walking with people and their families, through life's joy and sorrows.
Many times, what is needed is simply a caring presence.
When you think about Northgate five years from now, what do you hope we’re known for?
What a great question...
Off the top of my head I would say, "The church that cares, no matter what." I know we are already involved [in the community, but] what else can we help with? It would be great if we are the first thought for people, because we care, fueled by the love of Jesus.
What’s one small thing that can instantly make your day better?
A call from my kids, a call or more likely a text from my grands and time sitting on the back deck with Ken.
And, just for fun: what’s your most controversial food opinion?
I hate Brussel sprouts and every time I say that people say to me, "you just haven't had them made correctly" and they seem to take that as a challenge to get me to like them. I have tried them, grilled, sauteed, broiled, baked, deep fried, fresh and I am here to tell you they still taste like dirt...so on my 65th birthday, I decided I was old enough to declare that I would never try them again!
Tori’s story is a beautiful picture of how God can use every season of our lives. Retirement didn’t mean stepping away from ministry. It simply opened the door for Tori to serve in a new way, using her years of experience, a heart for people and a desire to see Northgate become an even more caring community.
As this care-minister team takes shape, we’re excited to see what God might do through ordinary people who are willing to notice, listen, show up and walk alongside someone who needs it.
Because sometimes ministry looks like a hospital visit or a phone call. Sometimes it’s walking with someone during a hard season. Sometimes, as Tori says, what’s needed is simply a caring presence.
And maybe, someday, it looks like Northgate becoming known as exactly what Tori hopes we’ll be:
“The church that cares, no matter what.”










